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I can't figure you out
I want a stable figure to think about
But the truth is you are always changing
You've lived many lives but you keep on moving

I can see you in the audience at the show
I can see you making dinner and gathering us around the table
But I can only remember seeing you cry
Like one time or two times or three times in my life

And the data shows that your love for me is unemotional
But it's tangible, I can see all the things around me, around me

I can always count on you
To invite me over to play music in your living room
And I love all the ways you try to connect with me
And sometimes it doesn't work, but you keep on trying

Can't you see all the ways that you love me
I can see all the ways that you love me
And I can't believe that we've come this far


from Split Peas, released June 5, 2019
Mary Wander


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Mary Wander Lancaster, Pennsylvania

Mary Wander is a queer, non-binary, 25-year-old, anarchist folkpunk musician.
Mary sings about their life; missing their lover, recovery from drug-use, relationships with family, going on dates in the Trump-regime, being in a gendered body in a gendered world, and breakfast.

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